A family lawyer described the support I give clients as being the ‘glue’ that keeps everything on track and clients in a good place through their divorce. I work privately with clients and increasingly with lawyers and financial advisors/planners as part of a ‘triangle’ service with my emotional and mental wellbeing 1-1 coaching, online courses and programmes.
In 2014 I started writing a divorce blog, feeling in overwhelm, depressed and scared about my future. This has grown up into Divorce Goddess, a brand all about transforming the divorce emotional and mental wellbeing experience. As a trained mindfulness teacher, coach and Reiki master teacher and having chosen the ‘self-kindness’ as the main foundation of my divorce, I work with clients on acceptance and letting go, kindness and forgiveness and maintain “your divorce is about you not your Ex”.
I’ve been featured in The Sunday Times and Weekend FT as well as BBC, ITV and Sky amongst others talking about a kindness in divorce, as well as a guest expert on several mental health summits and podcasts. I co-authored the 2020 #1 Best Seller Mindfulness for Challenging Times with Shamash Alidina with my chapter Mindful Ways Through Conflict. I am so excited to be included in the 2021 edition of the Spears 500 Directory as Best of Breed Divorce Support.
The Divorce Goddess podcast was ranked #41 in the US and #16 UK Relationship charts and can be found on Spotify and iTunes. Tosh is delighted to be in the top 7 recommended divorce consultants and divorce support in the 2021 Spears 500 the Guide world's first comprehensive guide to the top private client advisers, wealth managers and HNW service providers.
" Tosh has been an inspiration and guiding light, who in difficult times through my divorce has pushed me to look at alternative thought patterns and techniques to ease and support how I might approach these issues. I have learnt mindfulness tools and practices, support mechanisms and guidelines which have been transferable to other areas of life, not just my divorce. We all need to look deep within ourselves to discover our authentic self and Tosh has clearly unravelled the code to do this. Endless thanks go out to Tosh for her professional, mindful and practical approach and solid advice through my divorce that has been difficult on many levels.” JG, Stamford