10 Steps To Your Success After Divorce

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Whether you wanted the divorce or not, follow the steps below and see what a difference things can make. Its all about how you apply yourself!

Here are 10 steps to take after divorce to help create your new life.

1. Short term and long term goals

a. Write them down.

b. Think of the steps you’ll need to take to reach your goals.

c. Put a time on when you want to do them. d. Stay focused on your and goals.

2. Dating

a. Spend as long as it takes before you are ready.

b. Be careful not to be on the rebound.

c. Are you going to repeat the mistakes and choose a date similar to your ex?

3. Money management

a. Create a tight home.

b. Spend your money within your means.

c. Make smart choices based on sound reasoning.

4. Career

a. Are you passionate about it?

b. Is now a great time to look around at alternative careers that interest you.

c. RESEARCH, RESEARCH!!

d. Take action towards whats needed for jobs in that area.

5. Social circle

a. Build a new circle of friends.

b. Join in with new activities in your community.

c. Ask more experience people about those things you enjoy.

d. Don’t be afraid!

6. Time Wasting

a. Do not sit at home all day everyday.

b. You need to get a move on with your life. In your way.

c. Push yourself if you need to.

d. Stop making excuses

7. Refresh your home

a. Make changes to rooms one by one.m.

b. Set yourself a budget

c. Express yourself.

8. Grooming

a. Treat yourself every month.

b. It doesn’t have to be anything big.

c. Do something you have a passion for.

9. Give thanks

a. What are you grateful for.

b. Allow yourself a few minutes a day for reflection.

c. Write, meditate, or pray. Whichever takes your fancy.

10. Health. Mental/physical/emotional/spiritual

a. Every day is the chance to make a change in yourself.

b. Make it a habit

The only thing is fear itself. The unknown can be a challenge, but its up to you to brush yourself down and get on. Create the habits and the mentally to succeed.

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Kate Daly is co-founder of amicable and host of the The Divorce Podcast. Kate created The Divorce Podcast to discuss and demystify divorce, separation and co-parenting in the UK. In each episode, Kate is joined by experts in their field to explore divorce and separation from every angle.