Dating & Relationship Coach for Women

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Naomie Thompson (Hampshire)

About Naomie

Hi I’m Naomie Thompson, I’m a certified dating and relationship coach, founder of The Adored Woman podcast, and senior coach trainer for the Rori Raye method. I bring over 10 years experience helping accomplished divorced women break their old relationship patterns so they feel loved and cherished in the best relationship of their lives.

Coaching:

Our old patterns unconsciously run our choices. We invest time, money and energy into our career, our health, our finances, we don't leave those to chance. But finding a life partner usually gets left exactly there: to chance, to whoever activates our chemistry. And when it's left to chance, the same pattern that led us into our last relationship gets a free pass to repeat itself, with a different man but the same pattern underneath.

Clients come to me with a range of concerns

I don’t know where to start with dating apps
I don’t have time to date I’m afraid to trust again
I can’t imagine introducing a new man to my children
Can I trust myself not to make the same mistake again?
I don’t want to lower my standards or settle for less than I really want
I have success in life and career but not love- what’s wrong with me?
Many women have people pleasing and overfunctioning patterns and some wonder whether relationships are for them.

My story

I always struggled in relationships. I had strong armour, fragile boundaries and a pattern of choosing emotionally unavailable men. I overfunctioned and settled for crumbs. It took the discovery of my (now ex) husband’s affair to finally see my patterns, what I did and didn’t want in a relationship, and to learn to value myself. And so the learning began. I did the work: untangling the old patterns, learning to set boundaries instead of over-giving and people pleasing, rebuilding trust in myself. In baby steps, I moved from closed, anxious and masculine in energy to secure, feminine and grounded. I’m now engaged to a wonderful loving man; and, with the feminine communication skills I developed, I was able to create a great friendship with my ex husband and father of my children.

Testimonials

"I can't recommend Naomie highly enough. I worked with her for several months for relationship coaching, life coaching, and inner child healing, and the impact on my life has been genuinely profound. She has a rare ability to listen without judgment while making you feel truly seen, heard, and understood." Kiran- pakistan

"Naomie is an outstanding Relationship Coach. She is warm, empathetic, and highly skilled. I especially appreciate how she uses different coaching tools and exercises to help you reconnect with your feelings and inner wisdom. Her guidance has helped me gain clarity, and confidence. I highly recommend her." Anna- germany

“I always attracted guys who would let me down. My husband is the kindest man I’ve ever met, he cares so much for my happiness, and THAT changes the game! I feel loved and cherished. I’ve only done it thanks to you because it was such deep level work! Thank you, Naomie!” R- Switzerland

"I've worked with a lot of coaches and I've found the biggest impact working with Naomie for the last few months! Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart! Olivia USA

How I can help

Break the old painful patterns, and make wiser, more confident choices about the men you let into your life.
Learn to discern the red and green flags early on so you can consciously choose to date men who are capable of a committed healthy relationship
Choose compatibility before chemistry
Date with ease and efficiency so it becomes a vehicle to the relationship you want, not a drain on your time.
Learn the nuts and bolts of navigating the day to day of dating on or off the apps
Learn simple tools for emotional regulation and self mastery so you become more emotionally mature in the process
Learn how to express your needs, wants and boundaries with confidence and ease

Most clients feel a shift within the first few weeks - dating starts to feel more manageable, and the anxiety around it eases.

The deeper change, the kind that affects who you actually attract long-term, tends to unfold over a few months of consistent work - because you're not just adjusting behaviour, you're changing the pattern underneath it. Get in touch for a free relaxed consultation.