Divorce Coach | Nisanka Wickramarachchi

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Nisanka Wickramarachchi (West Sussex)

Co-Parenting With A Narcissistic

About Nisanka

I’m Nisanka - an ICF Accredited Life Coach and Trauma-Aware Holistic Practitioner. I support individuals navigating divorce and separation, particularly those in high-conflict situations or dealing with narcissistic partners.

Through 1:1 coaching and mentoring, I help you get strategic about your divorce process while healing your overwhelmed nervous system at a deep, subconscious level using holistic approaches. I also offer live workshops and online courses to support you further.

My own journey through divorce was nothing short of a shit storm. I’ve felt everything you’re feeling - confusion, self-doubt, anger, grief, helplessness, anxiety, PTSD, and even severe depression. At one point, I was neck-deep in debt and nearly homeless. I didn’t see the abuse for what it was - it was invisible, subtle, and often masked by good days. I truly believed I was the problem.

It took me four attempts to finally leave.

In the aftermath, I was terrified and overwhelmed by the legal process. I cried, I cursed, and I chased justice - until I realised that none of it was helping me heal.

That’s when everything changed. I got strategic. I accepted what I could and couldn’t control. I leaned deeper into my healing journey, integrating holistic and trauma-informed practices, and began to truly understand myself.

Now, I live with peace and purpose.

I’m also a Bollywood fanatic, food enthusiast, lover of sleep, sunsets, nature, reading, and dancing. I bring all of who I am - and everything I’ve learned - to the work I do. I’m here to walk this journey with you and help you reclaim your power, clarity, and peace.

Testimonials

"After years of struggling with a divorce involving someone who clearly only wants to hurt me but acts like their interests are reasonable. It is a great relief to find Nisanka, someone who has lived this, and come out the other side, strong, informed and compassionate, able to help others. I feel I've found someone who will be able to support me on this difficult journey and find a place of peace, acceptance and enable me to do the best I can for myself and my future." - JR

"Nisanka has been helping me cope with the worst period of my life. She has helped me ground myself with compassion, sensitively listened to my fears, and helped me see that I do have the power within me to bring about positive change. With her guidance, I have been able to practice finding peace within my body which has then enabled me to make choices that are rooted in self-knowledge rather than out of blind fear. Thank you, deeply, Nisanka." - Rachel D

"My free gift session with Nisanka was really just that - such a gift!

Having recently found out that I grew up with a parent which displays narcissistic traits, I've been struggling to grasp the full extent and to deal with the array of emotions that have been surfacing.

Throughout the session with Nisanka, I felt so held the whole time! I was able to express what's going on for me without any fear or hesitation, I could be vulnerable and at the same time we could have a good laugh - AND I felt heard, understood and absolutely safe.

Nisanka was quick at assessing my situation adequately and shared helpful info with me as well as some tools and starting points for me to explore further as I navigate this healing journey and learn how to explore different ways of relating with the narcissistic person in my life from now onwards. I got to understand to what pattern I default when under pressure or needing to make decisions and now have something to work with as I learn how to change. I will definitely book in again!" - Miriam

How I can help

Strategic divorce planning and navigation
Support for high-conflict divorce situations
Trauma-informed coaching for divorce recovery
Holistic healing approaches for emotional wellbeing
1-2-1 coaching and mentoring sessions Workshops and online courses for divorce support
My blog has it all - https://www.coachingwithnisanka.com/blog
Free Starter Kit - https://www.coachingwithnisanka.com/