Coaching | Counselling
About Sushma
Hello, I’m Sushma Kotecha. An ex-family lawyer, accredited family mediator, certified holistic divorce life coach & author of Holistic Divorce: Sh*t Happens, It's How You Deal With It That Counts
Navigating the complexities of divorce and separation can be overwhelming and emotionally draining. Many individuals struggle with the uncertainty of the process, the financial implications, and the emotional toll it takes on themselves and their families. This is where I come in.
As an accredited all-issues family mediator and holistic divorce life coach, I specialise in providing comprehensive support and guidance to help you through this challenging time. With years of experience and a deep understanding of the legal and emotional aspects of divorce, I offer a unique approach that combines practical advice with emotional support.
- Your pain points: Divorce and separation can leave you feeling lost, stressed, and unsure of the future. The legal jargon, financial worries, and emotional upheaval can make it difficult to see a clear path forward.
- Solutions I offer tailored online family mediation services and holistic coaching to help you navigate the divorce process with confidence. My holistic approach ensures that you are well-informed, emotionally supported, and empowered to make the best decisions for your future. By working with me, you can achieve a smoother, more amicable separation without giving away everything.
- Time Scales: Whether you need short-term guidance over a few weeks or ongoing support over several months, I am here to assist you. My services are flexible and designed to meet your specific needs.
- Costs: Investing in professional mediation and holistic coaching can save you significant amounts of money in the long run by avoiding costly legal proceedings and ensuring fair financial settlements. By choosing my services, you are investing in a more peaceful and financially stable future.
Please visit my services page for costs associated with each service and to book in a FREE 15-minute Discovery Call with me to answer any questions that are not already covered on my FAQ page.
How I can help
- Provide emotional support and practical advice: I offer a safe, empathetic virtual space for you to express your feelings, share your concerns, and begin the healing process.
- Guide you through the legal aspects of divorce: While I do not provide legal advice, I draw on over three decades of experience to guide you through the process.
- Help you manage your emotions and feelings: I provide tools and strategies to help you navigate the emotional challenges of divorce, ensuring you emerge stronger and more resilient.
- Help you understand and manage your finances: I provide neutral financial information to help you make informed decisions.
- Assist in effective negotiations: I help you develop effective communication and negotiation skills to facilitate constructive dialogue with your ex-partner.
- Co-create a parenting plan: I work with you to develop a comprehensive parenting plan that addresses the needs and well-being of your children.
- Offer strategies for effective communication with your ex-partner: I provide guidance to improve your communication skills, fostering more productive discussions and co-parenting arrangements.
- Support you in rebuilding your life post-divorce: I assist you in setting post-divorce goals, creating action plans, and supporting your journey toward a brighter future.
- Address any personal obstacles or limiting beliefs that may be hindering your progress: I help you identify and overcome emotional and psychological barriers.
- Create a clear and compelling vision for your future: I empower you to rebuild your life with newfound strength and resilience.
Testimonials
“I found Sushma’s approach really helpful – she was open to steering the conversation wherever I needed it to go, supportive and affirming, but also challenging when necessary. She offered helpful, pragmatic guidance on next steps and – being a naturally warm and concerned person – did so in a kind and attentive manner.”
“Divorce is surreal at best. But it happens. Sushma, with her professionalism, compassion and empathy ensures the entire experience was navigated as humanly as possible. With kindness and a touch of taking no s*** (in a good way), her handling of the inevitable emotions involved is a soothing influence, it helps keep things on point, on the practicalities of the process. With Sushma, mediation becomes something far easier and gentler than the dread and anxiety builds it up to be. With the greatest respect to Sushma, I wish I’d never met her, but, in the circumstances, I’m glad I did. She was a massive help both emotionally and practically. Five stars, thank you.”
